It is an advert, I know, and clearly pandering to a certain demographic. But nevertheless, I like the message in it. It doesn't matter who you love, I don't think it even matters how you love (with the normal proviso of doing no harm), it is the act of loving another that brings happiness into our lives. Others do not get to define us, nor do they determine what is the correct way of going about finding happiness in our lives. that is for individuals to discover. Life is indeed too short!
Can one person turn another gay? Clearly not, sexuality is not a choice. However, attraction to an individual of the opposite gender are normally attracted to may well enable you to recognise a more fluid sexuality than you had previously supposed. I always thought I was heterosexual and intensely disliked any contact with other women. It wasn't until I finally dealt with 25 year old issues stemming from childhood sexual abuse at the hands of another female and subsequently encountered women in a more gender fluid environment that I was able to allow my bisexuality to be expressed. I became very close to and fell in love with another woman, but circumstances were such that we didn't enter into a relationship.
I only encountered the internet hype about Ruby Rose this morning. I didn't know who she was and looked into her background a bit. She is stunning, lesbian and has done this lovely and very sexy video about gender fluidity. I thought you might enjoy!
Skeptical kinkster musing on whatever takes my fancy!